Lesbian guy
Hi Lilly,
I (I am 22 years old) have been through this situation, not exactly but very similar. I tried to seem more feminine or be more loving and open and it just felt erroneous to me. (I am more of a logical, hushed, down to ground, tom boy type girl.) I don’t like talking about furniture/decor, I don’t like talking about cooking, I don’t like jewelry. I like talking about spirituality, makeup, horses, love, romance, friendship etc. I am a deep person I can concern less about what most women around me talk about (no offense to any of them I love them.) Which if you talk about that stuff great! I was just trying to point out something that in the past has made me touch less feminine or lesbian. I noticed that I tried to start switching myself because I am a direct woman and wanted to be viewed as that. There is absolutely nothing wrong with existence lesbian, the questioning angered me because it started making me question “Are my interest alternative from straight women?” “Should I modify the way I talk, act, show myself?” “Am I feminine enough for the man I want?” “Am I a women that likes men or women?” “Am I doing
I also noticed that I would jog through crushes at my school favor crazy, just picking any boy to have a crush on. If they were nice to me for a second, I would just randomly launch crushing on them, and even if I don’t perform anything sexual and I just include a crush on a guy, it fades within l
I (male) have a crush on a lesbian and i don't know what to do with it
Unread postby Sam526687 »
Hi, I'm Sam, still 14, haven't posted here in a while.
A few months ago I met a girl. After a few weeks I realised I had a crush on her. That very same day it came up in conversation that she's gay. This would've been fine, but then I was misinformed (unintentionally) that she was actually bi, which got my hopes up, so over the next few months I did my best to get her to like me and stuff, but I could tell she wasn't really interested, and recently I found out she was gay, not bi, the whole time. Because of this, I'd gradually convinced over the course of those few months that I had lost interest and now only liked her platonically. At least, that's my theory, that I've been lying to myself, because I realised today that I still very much have feelings for her, and it's pulling me apart from the inside. I really appreciate spending time with her, it releases the happy chemicals and all that stuff, but I simultaneously know that she's same-sex attracted so my chances of developing further than the friend zone is 0% which just makes me feel a bit unsure of what to do with my feelings, and I
A man who Absolutely LOVES and Desires Women. But on the contrast does not relate to Men. As a teen he may have been very shy and could own also been view as gay because of his feminine characteristics. He is very interested in his own appearance ie: grooming, hair ,designer cloths ,etc. He does not favor to watch the football Game. He would rather be talking or flirting with an attractive female. HE is not sure he wants to be a woman, but knows what he would act if he was one ,first his personality and interests would be the same, and second he could lighten up and be himself , third he would be a lesbian. He has a strong desire to please women, paticuarly the ones he is most emotionally attracted to.
If a male friend of the MALE LESBIAN has a wife or Girlfriend and His male friend and Wife or Girlfriend get into a fight, The MALE LESBIAN will almost always understand and take the side of the female.
by 2 real 4 u December 03, 2007
The male lesbian is either a male who is wholly psychologically feminine but attracted to women, or an androgynous male whose feminine half is attracted to women.
Dave is wholly psychologically feminine. He has the