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rimming in British English
Rimming
This blog was written by our Sexual Health Outreach Worker, Stuart Payne.
What is rimming?
Rimming is… basically licking and stimulating the bum hole of your sexual partner.
It may not be for everyone, but for some, it can be an incredibly enjoyable experience. And suppose what – it’s not just lgbtq+ men that carry out it! Heterosexual people do it too!
Technically known as Anilingus, the term entered the English language in 1899.
So how do you perform it?
The first gesture to make here is that you should only rim or get rimmed if you absolutely want to undertake this (big word: CONSENT), by communicating with your sexual partner. If it’s not for you, just say NO!
Okay, so now you have decided on if it’s for you or not, how do you do it?
Well, as said at the beginning, it’s basically licking the bum hole of your sexual partner. You use the suggestion of your tongue to lick the outer part of the bum hole – some will even use their tongue to slightly penetrate to offer an anal massage, which can be a very pleasurable experience for your sexual partner. Many people really delight in the act of doing the rimming too, especially if their sexual loved one is enjoying it.
It’s commonly used
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BUTT STUFF HAS officially hit the mainstream. And we’re not just talking about straight-up anal intercourse, either; butt plugs, beads, and other sex toys have introduced new ways to experiment with the advocate door.
But if you’re just now discovering anal play, might we suggest rimming? There’s no risk of potential pain or discomfort here since penetration isn’t required. Some might even state it’s the new oral.
What is rimming?
Also commonly referred to as a rim job, analingus, tossing salad, eating the booty like groceries, butt munching, or eating ass—rimming is basically using your tongue and lips to pleasure your partner’s anus. According to Kristie Overstreet, PhD, a psychotherapist and clinical sexologist, the term stems from the evidence that the outer edges of the anus—AKA the rim—are often a focus area for stimulation. But the sky’s the limit here, friends: Rimming can also involve swirling your tongue directly on the anus, penetrating it, or just kissing and licking around it.
As for why anyone might want to strive rimming—aside from the sheer novelty of it, of course—your butt is packe
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- rim
- to lick the anus of another and possibly to insert the tongue into the anus. This is quite an intimate activity since it passes E. Coli, pinworms, amoebas, intestinal parasites, hepatitis and almost any other disease the lickee is carrying. You might wonder why anyone would ever engage in such an action. I have two theories:
- Courting behaviour is about convincing others of your genetic superiority. Perhaps by rimming you are saying My immune system is so strong I can get away with this without harm.
- Possibly you are saying, "I already consider you my lifelong mate. Your parasites will eventually be my parasites anyway."